UCP/RMA: Add GET and PUT rendezvous protocols

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What?

Add rendezvous-based protocols for PUT and GET:

• put/rndv as an RMA_RTS wrapper over regular RNDV receive
• get/rndv as a push-only RNDV wrapper using spontaneous RTR_REQ.

Why?

Reuse existing rendezvous flows for RMA transfers to support cases where native RMA cannot directly access either the source or destination.

How?

PUT using put/rndv:

• RNDV_SEND creation on origin, RMA_RTS tx, RNDV_RECV creation on target

GET uses a rndv push flow only, using get/rndv:

• RNDV_RECV creation on origin, RTR_REQ tx, RNDV_SEND creation on target, data push and relevant AMs.

Common:

• RNDV fragmentation, mtype staging, pipeline flow, rkey packing, ATP/ATS handling, request cleanup
  Config for instance:
• UCX_MAX_RNDV_RAILS applies through the reused RNDV data path, UCX_RNDV_SCHEME is functional for put/rndv.