fix(cmake): fix bundled c-ares cmake issue with e.g. SLES #3384

Job	Run time
build-dev-minimal-arm64 / build-and-test	4m 10s
build-dev / build-and-test	10m 30s
fetch-version / fetch-version	32s
build-dev-minimal / build-and-test	4m 40s
build-dev-packages-x86_64 / build-musl-package	28m 8s
build-dev-packages-x86_64 / build-modern-bpf-skeleton	1m 43s
build-dev-packages-arm64 / build-modern-bpf-skeleton	1m 24s
build-dev-packages-x86_64 / build-win32-package	11m 1s
build-dev-packages-x86_64 / build-wasm-package	7m 35s
build-dev-packages-x86_64 / build-macos-package	6m 48s
build-dev-packages-arm64 / build-musl-package	-1s
build-dev-packages-arm64 / build-win32-package	-1s
build-dev-packages-arm64 / build-wasm-package	-1s
build-dev-packages-arm64 / build-macos-package	-1s
build-dev-packages-arm64 / build-packages-debug	19m 10s
build-dev-packages-arm64 / build-packages-release	19m 15s
build-dev-packages-arm64 / build-packages-sanitizers	0s
build-dev-packages-x86_64 / build-packages-debug	28m 21s
build-dev-packages-x86_64 / build-packages-release	29m 48s
build-dev-packages-x86_64 / build-packages-sanitizers	16m 33s
check-engine-version	5s
check-engine-checksum	8s
test-dev-packages-arm64 / test-packages	6m 25s
test-dev-packages / test-packages	10m 51s
	3h 27m 3s

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