Update minimum node version to `22`

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Node v20 is reaching End of Life this month so we should bump our minimum up to Node v22.

This has come up a few times recently where we were unable to update packages (#13239) or unable to use newer node functions. These sort of things could be addressed at the same time.

Locally all devs need to make sure they update their node versions.

In all CI workflows we should bump to using Node 22 and/or 22 + 24 the few places we test that